that my pain and discomfort are unreasonable.
This comes from my inner mind
which focuses solely on my own feelings & desires.
This type of thinking helps no one,
and only resolves to make me bitter about my situation.
Rejection by others becomes resentment.
The pain I face becomes fearfulness.
The loss I experience becomes something else,
which makes me feel alone,
and in that place I lose trust in other people,
until I isolate myself from others.
Depression is often the result.
This can be my first response and reaction,
when I don't know how else to think or feel
about something I have no control over.
My dissatisfaction becomes a single focus...
in my own view of what is 'right and wrong'.
In other words, it all becomes about me.
Satan loves this kind of thinking.
It is the arrogance of mankind,
(which comes from fear and a lack of understanding):
that if something happens which seems unfair,
then we demand to know why,
and to find comfort in the answers.
But perhaps our ideas of right and wrong are simply too small.
Yet, if we cannot understand how the world works,
then why do we doubt God's plan?
If God is complex to us, then perhaps we can recognize
our own inability to grasp His reasons and accept them.
Let us simplify it like this ...
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."