When you have failed, what do you do next?
Many of us add to the pain of the moment,
by using harsh, negative words to describe ourselves,
then continue with self-sabotage,
which is meant as a form of self-punishment.
When does it end - this pattern of Self-Defeat?
Do you expect a 'lighting-bolt moment' to arrive and change you forever?
I think this is what many of us hope for:
- that some unknown person will come and enter our lives to help save us from ourselves,
- or an "A-ha!" moment occurs when our minds somehow miraculously improve and we see everything with new clarity,
- but perhaps we are awaiting a better purpose for ourselves that gives new meaning to our existence.